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Red Is the New Black: Why It's Fashionable to Be Healthy

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I have spent the majority of my adult life in retail and fashion. I have truly felt fortunate to be in the business of helping people look and feel good and of making their houses into homes. On my journey, I have been mentored by strong women, and I have worked alongside them, as women comprise 70 percent of Macy's employee population. And in my personal life, I have been blessed with an amazing mother who is also my best friend, an incredible sister, and eight beautiful and very special nieces.



For women, what I'm about to say next won't likely come as a shock: we need to do more to take care of our own health, especially our heart health. Let me take you back to the moment when this became clearer to me -- and to the progress of a decade spent toward the mission of reducing the occurrence of heart disease in women.



It was in 2003 when I found myself around a table in midtown Manhattan with a few inspiring women from the American Heart Association. They were talking with urgency and intensity about the fact that heart disease is the number one killer of women, taking more women's lives than all types of cancer combined. I was personally stunned by this news. It was definitely not popular knowledge. We all agreed -- more needed to be done to raise awareness, to get this message out to women across America, and to help them understand how preventable heart disease can be with some basic attention to their health.



The importance of this cause was crystalized even further for me as I encountered a scare with my own mother. She had retired and was enjoying her life - spending time with her grandchildren and doing what she loved to do which included dancing, shopping, and visiting Florida. Like so many women, she was not very good at taking care of herself when she was younger, as she had five children, five grandchildren, a career and caretaking responsibilities for a very sick father. All of that was more important than her own health. Now later in her life, my sister and I constantly reminded her to start taking care of herself so that she could really enjoy her years in retirement and watch her grandchildren grow.



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Macy's dresses by Calvin Klein, Kensie and XOXO worn by heart disease survivors at Go Red For Women / The Heart Truth Red Dress Collection 2014 Show presented by Macy's and SUBWAY Restaurants.




During her normal annual check-up she confided to her doctor that she did have some trouble breathing at times and would tend to get very winded. Heart disease was not part of our family history, so it never occurred to her that it was a heart issue. That same day he immediately ordered a stress test for her and found that she had a 90 percent blockage in the main artery of her heart. Without hesitation, he performed a procedure the next day and inserted a stent in the artery which prevented her from having a massive heart attack. I was never so grateful to a doctor as he gave my mother these past 10 years to enjoy her family, and quite honestly for me to continue to have my best friend in my life.



So with evidence -- both scientific and personal - that there was a profound need to raise the consciousness to this issue for women, it was across that midtown Manhattan table with a small group of motivated women that a movement was born. One year later, Macy's was a founding sponsor of Go Red For Women -- a platform that would use the iconic power of the color red, and the influential stage of the fashion industry to educate women more thoughtfully and thoroughly than ever before about their risk of heart disease and the simple steps toward prevention.



As I look back more than a decade later, I am profoundly grateful for that breakthrough moment that gave this important movement its legs, and I am deeply proud of the leadership position Macy's has taken in the fight against heart disease in women. In fact, Macy's efforts alone have helped raise more than $46 million for the cause. Thanks to Nancy Brown, Chief Executive Officer, and her passionate team at the American Heart Association, along with other important corporate sponsors and organizations fighting this killer, we can proudly say that our mighty coalition in its first 10 years has helped to raise awareness and fund research that has contributed to saving 627,000 women's lives since 2004!



Great progress has surely been made, but there is still much more to do. As we commemorate the 50th American Heart Month this February, and as we celebrate National Wear Red Day today, we should continue to remind our mothers, sisters, friends and coworkers that nearly 1,100 women still die each day in the United States from heart disease. We should challenge them to spend the same time understanding their heart health as they do picking out a new pair of shoes or finding the perfect pair of jeans (we appreciate how hard this really is!). It's easy to know your numbers -- and from there you and your doctor can make a plan to keep your heart healthy.



I hope in reading this you will feel inspired to spread the word...and to wear your most fabulous red dress, heels or even lipstick for today's National Wear Red Day and throughout the month of February ... in a show of support and solidarity with your sisters. In fact, we're so committed to encouraging everyone in America to wear red, that if you wear red in our stores now through Feb. 10, you'll receive a special savings...our way of thanking you for joining us in support of this important cause. You can also purchase a red dress pin from Macy's for two dollars, and we'll donate 100 percent to Go Red For Women plus give you the special savings. Last year our sale of red dress pins raised $3.2 million for Go Red! We will even have a special collection of three red dresses available this February from Calvin Klein, Kensie and XOXO that benefit the cause.



As a woman who has spent her career in the world of fashion, I hope you'll take it to heart when I say there is no better accessory and no stronger fashion statement than good health. Seize this opportunity to be a part of the movement that is making a real difference for women's hearts. Go Red proudly this February.



This post is part of a series produced by The Huffington Post and the American Heart Association in recognition of National Wear Red Day (Feb. 7, 2014), the aim of which is to raise awareness that heart disease is the No. 1 killer of women. To read all the stories in the series, click here. And to follow the conversation on Twitter -- and share a picture of yourself wearing red -- find the hashtag #RedSelfie.


Start Taking Action

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As a cardiologist, if there's a message I could share with every woman during this American Heart Month, it would be to "start taking action on your own behalf right now."



I believe that many women underestimate the power they have to positively impact their personal cardiovascular health. Too many women remain unaware that by taking simple, everyday steps, they can substantially reduce their risk of developing heart disease. And there's a lot at stake, because heart disease is by far women's most deadly and most prevalent illness. It causes more deaths among women than all causes of cancer combined, and one in three women will develop it during their lifetime.



That's why I want women to know there's not a moment to lose, and a great deal to be gained by becoming their own leading health advocates. A proactive attitude is the key to making this happen. As women, we need to have the will to take action, because no one else is going to do it for us.



The scientific literature is replete with studies documenting the enormous benefits of healthy daily lifestyles. For example, in a landmark report by researchers at the Harvard School of Public Health, women who maintained a healthy diet, weren't overweight, did not smoke, and exercised regularly, had an incidence of coronary events that was more than 80 percent lower than that in the rest of the population. Numbers like these offer irrefutable proof that women's leading health threat is, in fact, highly preventable.



These same healthy lifestyles are emphasized in the American Heart Association's "Effectiveness-Based Guidelines for the Prevention of Cardiovascular Disease in Women." In addition, the association's guidelines emphasize the importance of regular visits to the doctor to assess cardiovascular risk and determine the necessary steps to control risk factors like hypertension, high cholesterol and elevated blood sugar levels.



Over the past 15 years, we've seen a steady and encouraging increase in women's awareness of heart disease and the importance of risk factor control. However, despite the overall trend, closer analysis reveals awareness discrepancies among women in some racial and ethnic groups and also among different age groups. We have to close these gaps. In a nation that becomes more diverse every day, we must do a better job of reaching ALL women with these simple and practical recommendations that can make a lifesaving difference.



In my practice, I see patients every day who are facing the consequences of heart disease. For many of them, heart disease could have been stopped in its tracks had they acted sooner. But the message of prevention arrived too late. Today, they would give anything for the chance to turn back the clock and take decisive action. That's why I hope every woman who reads this column will stop right now and give serious consideration to your own heart health. Sure, go ahead, and continue your efforts to prevent cardiovascular disease in your spouse, or children or even in your parents. But, let the effort begin with you! Begin each new day as a golden opportunity to build a healthier future.



This post is part of a series produced by The Huffington Post and the American Heart Association in recognition of National Wear Red Day (Feb. 7, 2014), the aim of which is to raise awareness that heart disease is the No. 1 killer of women. To read all the stories in the series, click here. And to follow the conversation on Twitter -- and share a picture of yourself wearing red -- find the hashtag #RedSelfie.

What Happened When I Took a Selfie With My Daughter

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I recently saw this video on Facebook.

Selfie, directed by Academy Award-winning documentary filmmaker Cynthia Wade, reveals how we have the power to redefine what is beautiful in all of us. The video is part of the Dove Campaign for Real Beauty.

It made me think.

Minutes before watching it, I had been giving my husband Phil the hard sell on why I needed eyelash extensions: to distract from my "accordion eyes and Grinch-face." My daughters were not in the room, but we all know that doesn't matter. They hear everything.

Typically, I abstain from this kind of negative self talk around my kids, because I know it sticks. Phil and I consider "fat" and "diet" dirty words. My sister and I still tease my mom for saying repeatedly, "My sisters were so petite and I was born a size ____." A size, for what it's worth, she has yet to reach.

I remember the first time I watched a Dove Real Beauty commercial. It was 2006, and I was sitting on my couch watching the Super Bowl. When the commercial aired -- full of young, beautiful girls who hated the way they looked -- I cried. Sobbed, actually. My daughter Emma was 9 months old at the time, and the thought of her believing she was anything less than exquisite destroyed me.

But that's not why I was crying.

I was crying because, at age 29, thoughts of self-loathing ran through my mind all day long. I starved myself to get that baby weight off. And still, it was never enough. I was never enough. How am I going to teach Emma to love herself? I don't even know what that means.

Well, I had to learn. And I've come a long way. But not far enough.

Maybe it's the winter doldrums, a lack of sleep or my laziness about getting to yoga that's taken a toll on my self-image. My new uniform of a grocery store sweatshirt and reindeer leggings is not exactly sexy. Whatever the case, there has been a whole lot of negative self-talk rattling around in my head: My butt jiggles when I walk. If my left boob hung any lower I would trip over it. How is it possible to have zits and wrinkles simultaneously?

I asked Phil: "Do I put myself down... out loud?"

He paused. "Well, you don't come out and say 'I'm a hideous beast!' But you do tend to make these odd comparisons that are not exactly self-affirming."

"I do? Like what?"

"When we are going out to dinner, for example, you will say something bizarre, like:Do I look like the last clown in the clown car? Do I look like a bell boy? Do I look like a greeter at Walmart? Do I look like a Wookie? Do I look like a hostile transvestite?"

"Hmm. Yes, I guess I do say those things."

When I "poke fun at myself," I think I am being funny. But even seemingly harmless self-depricaiton carries the unmistakable tinge of truth. The truth that I am not good enough, exactly as I am. Even in reindeer leggings.

A teenage girl in Selfie says: "I think my mom's insecurities affect me a lot. When you hear her talk about her insecurities, you start to think about your own."

I asked Emma why she started smiling with her lips together.

"Because I hate my teeth," she said. "I stand in front of the mirror and practice smiling with my mouth closed."

She's 7.

So, we watched Selfie together. As the credits rolled Emma said: "Wow, that made me sad at first, but then end made me smile. That's a cool experiment."

"Do you want to try it?"

She raised one eyebrow. "What, like just you and me? Take selfies?"

"Sure, why not?"

"Well, because you hate getting your picture taken. Do you even know how to take a selfie?"

"I think I can figure it out."

She didn't look convinced. "Ok... let's do it."

She wasn't wrong to be skeptical. I do hate having my picture taken. When I try to take a photo with my phone and accidentally press that Reverse-Selfie button, I scream like I am being stabbed. Every. Single. Time.

In Selfie, the photographer says: "Your mom can redefine beauty, just like you can."

Redefining beauty through selfies? I wasn't convinced. ut I also compare myself to Chewbacca. My judgement could be off.

Taking a selfie did not feel natural nor intuitive. It made me feel like Justin Bieber. But printing and actually looking at the photo -- now that was an eye-opener. How often do you really look at your own face? And no, I don't mean in that special makeup mirror that magnifies your pores 5,000 times. I mean, really look, the way you look at your child's face when she is sleeping and think, how perfect is that little face?

Once I got over the initial GADZOOKS! response of seeing my own reflection, I started to really see. Not beyond my laundry list of imperfections, but beneath them -- like the way I look at a painting in a museum. Instead of noticing flaws and labeling them as "wrong," I just noticed. I asked:

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Who is this person? What is her story? What is going on behind those eyes?

I wasn't a total purist. We had fun with filters and photo apps.

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Why not? Just like fake eyelashes, hair color, or smokey eye makeup, it's fun to explore and try on different disguises. When I was a teenager, we did it with Manic Panic and black eyeliner. Now, there's an app for that. Blue hair that you don't have to grow out? Genius! In fact, we got so caught up in the possibilities that Emma forgot to hide her teeth.

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But despite all the options for brightening or blurring or bronzing, it was this makeup, filterless, early morning selfie that changed how I see myself:

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When I look at this photo, I see a mom, a wife, a friend, a daughter, a sister, an artist, a seeker. I see a person who is earnest, kind and loving. I see lines that come from laughing and worrying -- and from a few years of not taking the best care of myself. I see eyes that have seen hundreds of sleepless nights, nursing a baby or changing pukey sheets. I see a face that is grateful to be needed, to be loved, to have finally found a place in this world, and this place is right here, right now. I see peace. I see someone who does her best everyday to become a little bit more of who she truly is.

And that is beautiful.

That's a cop out, right?

OK, I'll say it: I am beautiful.

Now you try.

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Cold-Weather Shoes for Fashion week!

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The official kick-off of a super-chilly Fashion Week has begun. I normally brave the cold with my Seventeen Fashion team every February as we teeter in our heels up, down, and all around town to the shows, but so far this week has been different. I've been looking forward to taking my new Saint Laurent booties out for a spin but have been reduced to wearing the old, classic snow boots to get me through these ankle-high ice puddles! We aren't the only ones braving the brutal slush, ice, and wind. The options from some of fashion's fave street-style stars have pretty much stuck to these categories: fluffy, furry and oh-so-cozy inside, superstorm-snow protection, sleek leathers with a "what snow?" attitude, and the costume change (from boots to heels, of course).

I'll be staying bundled from head to toe all week (with lots of hot-chocolate breaks in between events), but no matter what category they fall under, the fashion peeps this season are getting more creative with their looks than ever before.

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25 Things a Woman Should Have by Her 30s

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Maybe it is because we are 1/12th done with 2014 already. Maybe it is because in 8 months I will be unarguably closer to 40 than to 30. Who knows... in any case, I have been thinking about what I long for -- my list of things a girl (lady) needs by the time she is somewhere in her 30s... Some I have already, some I still long for...

1. A passport (the more stamps the better).
2. The ability to flirt, elegantly, yet convincingly.
3. A great aesthetician to turn to for brows, other waxing needs, a facial, a massage.
4. A fail-safe skin care and makeup routine for day, and one for evening.
5. A signature fragrance.
6. A form of physical exercise you are passionate about.
7. A friend who can count on you as her "get out of jail" card.
8. A set of champagne glasses and a champagne you know you love.
9. A handbag from an iconic French or Italian design house.
10. A set of pearl or diamond stud earrings that makes you feel elegant and put together no matter the tears in your jeans.
11. A pair of jeans you know you look great in (with or without tears).
12. A garter-belt, and the confidence to wear it.
13. The ability to write the perfect thank-you note (and the stationery that goes with it).
14. Eye cream that you use religiously twice a day.
15. Something on your wall that is neither a poster nor a family photograph.
16. The ability to forgive (others, but yourself first).
17. A family you love.
18. The confidence to ask for what pleases you in bed.
19. The confidence to say no. At work. In bed. And everywhere in between.
20. A savings account and a retirement fund.
21. A local bar that will always find you a seat (because you go there often and tip well).
22. A restaurant you can take clients out to lunch that will always give you excellent service and act like they know you (again, because you go there often and tip well).
23. A set of stilettos that will give you confidence no matter the day you have had (and that you can walk in).
24. A person whose happiness you put above your own.
25. A bucket list.

Exclusive Interview With Portland Fashion and Textile Designer, Rio Wrenn, About Valentine's Day Love and Lingerie

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Valentine's Day is a short, but sweet way to ponder passion, desire and romance; so how can the flame of love hope to brightly burn through this very cold winter?

Here's my fashion answer to that question about Valentine's Day love and lingerie, that I thought you might truly enjoy.

Recently, I had the opportunity to speak with Portland fashion and textile designer, Rio Wrenn, about this topic, and about her lingerie collection for women of all shapes and sizes.

Together with the creative team of Hart Portland art directors, fashion stylists and flower power enthusiasts, Jill Mason and Kate Hart, (WeAreHart.com) Portland photographer, Travis Geny, hair and make up designers, David Yu and Janelle Hayden, we set the studio on fire with the "Look of Love in All Shapes and Sizes Lingerie Shoot," with models Alina Phillips, Christine Shield, Favour Kibali, Vanessa Meier and Natasha Ward.

Wrenn of Raw (R A W) Textiles says, "I am a visual artist, textile designer, belly dancer and nature lover."

Okay, let's start today's fashion story about love in all shapes and sizes. What do you think about that statement, and how does it work with your lingerie designs for the female body?

Yes, that is so true. That statement goes very well with my processes and attitude towards life. When I started making lingerie, I wanted the samples and models to be a mix of small and large. That, of course, is defined by industry standards.

My muse is curvy and confident. We are all basically the same on the inside, yearning for love, and our body is just a shell. As far as my process of dyeing textiles goes, and my conceptual vision -- I transform decay and use unconventional objects to manifest beauty.

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Photography by Travis Geny, hair and make up by David Yu, art direction by fashion stylists Jill Mason and Kate Hart for Hart Portland, and modeled by Favour Kibali.




Favour wears the nectar bodice, and yogi undies were part of my last lingerie collection for spring and summer 2013. I dedicated that collection to dance. I used indigo to dye them. The heart (tea) corset was made for a show in 2010 that was recycled garments called "Pre-soiled." It was made from a vintage linen tea cloth stained with tea.


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Photography by Travis Geny, hair and make up by Janelle Hayden, art direction by fashion stylists Jill Mason and Kate Hart for Hart Portland, and modeled by Alina Phillips.



Alina's wears the silhouette slip was from the spring and summer 2014 collection. I have been slowly integrating many of the vintage laces and crocheted item I have collected. This is one of those pieces. It was made with a lace table runner, and inserted with pin-tucked silk, dyed with cochineal.


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Photography by Travis Geny, hair and make up by Janelle Hayden, art direction by fashion stylists Jill Mason and Kate Hart for Hart Portland, and modeled by Christine Shields.



Christine wears the Athena bra, which was first introduced in the 2010 collection. I wanted to make something romantic and easy to fit for multiple breast sizes. The retro gear girdle was part of the "Pre-soiled" recycled fashion show in 2010. It was made with rust printing, and then quilted. I love this piece because it is meant to accentuate the hips, but unlike a girdle, it should be worn on the outside.


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Photography by Travis Geny, hair and make up by David Yu, art direction by fashion stylists Jill Mason and Kate Hart for Hart Portland, and modeled by Natasha Ward.




Natasha wears my newest garment. It is not part of a collection, but I love it. It reminds me of the sea because of its flow and ease. It is made with sheer silk cut on the base, and dyed with logwood.


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Photography by Travis Geny, hair and make up by Janelle Hayden, art direction by fashion stylists Jill Mason and Kate Hart for Hart Portland, and modeled by Vanessa Meier.



Vanessa wears a slip that was part of the 2010 collection. I thought it might be fun to take a basic slip cut and insert a sheer panel in the center to transform it into something unexpected. This was dyed with wattle and rust printed.

What are you creating today for future fashion endeavors, or on what horizon are you viewing for your creative future?

Currently, I'm not making lingerie collections. I do, however, have a lot of vintage laces and such that I want to revisit someday. I have decided to focus my energy and intentions on textile design. This is what I have always wanted, and I think by just creating the textiles, I can use the rest of my energy to market and connect with other designers who might want to work with me and integrate natural dyes into there collections. I still have a collection of scarves that I am introducing, but I am open to collaborations and welcome new opportunities.

What are your inspirations now, books, music and/or nature?

I am always inspired, it seems. Right now, I find that I love to manipulate color with my original composting methods, and from that I am seeing patterns and images created in the folds once the textile is fully opened, and breathing. I love music, and I really dig the new M.I.A. Mantangi. I am working on an art exhibit that will hang this summer in Illinois, and my inspiration is the core. Many of the panels look like cross sections of stones. I am really excited about that.

How do you juggle your creative world and the mundane? Or what's your biggest challenge creatively right now?

They are one in the same. I think of my art as a way of life and a spiritual quest.

What's your "go-to" song, food or passion, that elevates your soul?

I'm working on choreography that is more in the modern dance genre, and I will dance to elevate my soul. The music I have chosen is "Amorphous" by Bill Laswell. [Divine.]

Where can we find Rio Wrenn creating into the world her art, fashion and textiles? What's next for Raw Textiles?

I'm giving most of my time and attention to a few art exhibits, learning how to market, and organize my work to be more textile design and print collections. I hope to influence the fashion industry at large by integrating my natural dyed and rusted techniques into collections around the world. Slow is the new fast.

Stayin' Stylish... On A Budget

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"I don't do fashion, I am fashion." -- Coco Chanel

Suede suits. Lace dresses. Faux leather jackets. Old school tennis shoes. I can never keep track of what is trendy now, what used to be trendy, and furthermore, what should I spend my cash on. Just when I think I have it figured out, the silly trend changes again.

I live in Los Angeles, and yes, I fall prey to the overwhelming desire to stay stylish. Come on now, I know I'm not the only one out there who has labored in front of my closet trying to find the "perfect" combination to stay trendy, and to look, well, fantastically awesome. Let's face it, trendy costs money... big bucks if you're trying to keep up with the Joneses. As with everything, I argue there is a better way to stay stylish without going bankrupt.

You Look Marvelous Darling...

I sat down with celebrity stylist, Inanna Bantu, who is a part of the styling team Afropeaux and asked her how to solve this seemingly unsolvable crisis. Inanna is a style maven who has styled so many A-list stars including Tom Cruise, Betty White and Matthew Perry to name a few. She has an air about her that is infectious and makes me want to scream, "Please, come and make me marvelous!"

Shannah: Inanna, you've styled so many celebrities for movies, TV and print adds. Can you give me a list of your top five items that men and women should have as staple items in their wardrobe, on a non-celebrity budget?

Inanna: Yes, this is a great question. Just like building a financial foundation, having signature or staple pieces will pay you back time and time again because you can mix and match and really create your own style. Here is what I suggest:

Men:
Slim-fitting white dress shirt
Lapel accessories for blazers
Brown Monkstrap shoes
Blue Blazer, NOT navy
Colored Demin


Women:
A unique little black dress
Embellished coat
Statement heels
Investment bag
Variety of scarves from neutral to vibrant


Shannah: Great, I'm a personal fan of men's white dress shirts. Something very timeless and classy about a man in a white shirt. Ok, so I've got $500 to spent this spring on additions to my closet. Where do I go and what am I looking for?

Inanna: Oh, good question. You can do a lot with $500, even less. For men and women, hit the clearance sections at Zara, H&M and discount retailers like Nordstrom Rack. I would buy statement pieces -- off-the-rack clothes that fit your body well and allow you to be well-dressed.

Women spring items for less:
Neutral to vibrant scarves
Full skirts
Cut-out Tops/Dresses


Men spring items for less:
Casual pastel dress shirts
Low-top sneakers that look like, but are not from a fashion house
O ring belts and fedora hats


Shannah: Love it! I am a huge fan of Zara, but particularly like the Zara's overseas. I think their buyers have a different knack at finding new trends. Let's talk about how being properly styled can help you get a better job, bigger salary and get ahead. Do you have any examples of how being properly styled can result in a bigger bank account?

Inanna: I see this all the time. In fact, a high-profile client of mine needed an image makeover and we spent time recreating her look -- by the time she hit the red carpet, she ended up booking a major film role due to her new look. So yes, ladies and gents, image IS everything in Hollywood... and your job market.

Shannah: Lastly, and honestly, who wouldn't want to hire a stylist to go through their closet? I've always wanted someone to come in and magically wave a wand and totally change my style with the clothes I have. I've always heard that hiring a stylist is something that only A-listers can afford. Am I wrong?

Inanna: Yes, stylists have typically been considered a luxury; however, personal styling can be affordable, depending on your needs and wants. Often, a personal stylist charges by the hour with a minimum. This rate can vary per client. With my personal clients, I offer everything from closet overhauls, to shopping new looks to creating their signature style... even on a budget.

Shannah: I love it. So in a nutshell, you don't have to spend a ton of money to update your look once you have your staple pieces. This can be done with a small investment and you can keep building from there. What I love even more is the importance of styling yourself even when you can't afford to hire a stylist, because at the end of the day, being put together well leads to more money in the bank. It really is that simple.

Inanna: I couldn't have said it better. Work with the money you have, build a piece at a time, and always leave the house believing you are red-carpet ready.

My Son Was Six Years Old When I Introduced Him to Liberace, Elvis and Hendrix

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On a sub-zero February morning in 1997, I stopped at my son Harry's bedroom door. I wanted to see if he was dressed for the day ahead in first grade. He was sitting on the floor in front of an open drawer, putting his left foot into an orange sock. A complementary lime green sock covered his right foot.

"Girls have a real advantage," he said, looking up at me.

"What do you mean?" I asked.

"They can wear whatever colors they want and play sports."

An ache moved across my chest. "Yeah, you're right. It's not fair."

At six years old, Harry was keenly aware of the chasm between school clothes for boys and those for girls. He would have gladly worn the pink chambray skirt from his dress-up box over his purple sweat pants. But I'd made the distinction that his girls' clothes were only for play. I felt guilty talking about what was fair and what wasn't.

I shifted mental gears to appreciate tie-dye. I thanked Gap Kids for solid-colored sweat pants. And I appreciated my cousin Kat for wowing Harry at Christmas with a gray sweatshirt she'd decorated with glittery fabric glue teddy bears and reflective confetti.

I followed brightly clad Harry down the stairs; happy he'd been able to choose clothes from a drawer full of colors. Eight months earlier his dad and I had considered a private school with a dress code. Conservative styles aside, the only colors allowed for boys were navy, dark green, yellow, white and khaki.

We knew that would never fly with Harry. To him, sameness was boring. But I'd floated the idea anyway.

"At one of the schools your dad and I visited kids can only wear only certain colors," I told him.

"You mean one day you wear all orange and one day you wear all blue?"

"Well, not exactly. You can mix the colors you wear, but only a few colors. Just navy blue, dark green, tan, yellow and white."

Harry's mouth fell open and his eyebrows crinkled toward each other. I might just as well have said all Barbie dolls were being recalled.

"Oh, Mom. I can't go to that school."

"We know," I said, biting my lower lip for having described such a fashion prison.

While I made Harry toast and cocoa that winter morning before school, I told him about Liberace and the clothes covered with rhinestones, sequin jackets and pink-feathered capes. I described Elvis Presley's gold lamé suit with diamond-encrusted lapels and the white jump suit decorated with metal studs and big red and black stones. And I talked about the braided blazer, fringed coat and silk scarves worn by Jimi Hendrix.

I wanted him to know that the fashion door would open for him; that as boys got older they gained the freedom to wear whatever they wanted. I needed him to know there were men who had defied the notion of sameness and boredom with what they wore.

Harry hung on every word. I knew he was imagining what it would feel like to be dressed so glamorously out in the world.

This cold, snowy February of 2014, Harry is 23 years old. The last time we met for dinner in Brooklyn he wore his black faux fur coat, lemon yellow fox scarf, some printed leggings and Army-issue Desert Storm boots. If he's performing as Amber Alert, best bet is she'll be in a shimmery silhouette of sequins, beads or feathers. And sports or no sports, she'll be taking full advantage of all the glitz and glam that fashion has to offer.

The Look of Love for Valentine's Day

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Winter continues to hurl snow, wind and freezing temperatures across America all the while we dream of our heart's on fire with love, and romance for Valentine's Day.

Really, how can we possibly hope for a look of passion and love with all the intense cold holding us frozen? Well, fear not I have a few tips from someone who can help save the day for our desires and amore.

Yes, I had a chat with Portland-based hairstylist and makeup artist David Yu during a recent photo shoot and asked him for a quick look-see at what he thinks could quite possibly be the best looks for romance. So, how to put on your best face for love and springtime perfection?

Yu says:

As far as today's makeup look is concerned, my concept was clean, luminous, expensive looking skin. I feel that with all the makeup trends that come and go season after season, the one constant that remains is well-hydrated, youthful, glowing skin.


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Photography by Travis Geny, modeled by Natasha Ward, hair and makeup by David Yu, fashion styling by Hart Portland (WeAreHart.com) and designs by Rio Wrenn

On model Natasha Ward, I prepped her face and décolletage with an oil-free moisturizing cream since her skin type leans towards the combination and oily side. Afterwards, I applied a highlighting lotion, such as MAC Strobe Cream, to the high points of the face to reflect light and give her that beautiful glow.


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Photography by Travis Geny, modeled by Natasha Ward, hair and makeup by David Yu, fashion styling by Hart Portland (WeAreHart.com) and designs by Rio Wrenn

We kept her foundation light because she has such gorgeous skin, so I lightly patted on a sheer water-based foundation (MAC Face & Body) with a damp sponge. A peach toned color correcting concealer from was used under the eyes and a dusting of translucent powder through the t-zone and undereye area helped to set the foundation and concealer.


To keep this look very soft and romantic, I used the Nars Indian Summer eyeshadow duo and simply swept the lighter shade across the lids and on the brow bone as a highlight, and used the warmer brown shade to contour the crease.


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Photography by Travis Geny, intimate apparel modeled by (Left to right) Vanessa Meier, Christine Shields, Alina Phillips, Natasha Ward and Favour Kibali, hair and makeup by David Yu, fashion styling by Hart Portland (WeAreHart.com) and fashion designs by Rio Wrenn

L'Oreal's Voluminous mascara was used only on the top lashes to add definition and lift to the eyes. For the brows, I lightly filled them in with the Billion Dollar Brows Universal Brow Pencil and groomed them with a clear brow gel. To finish this natural look, I kept the lips nude. I lightly lined with a burgundy rose lip liner (NARS liner in Marnie) and patted on Honey Love lipstick by MAC.


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Photography by Travis Geny, modeled by Natasha Ward, hair and makeup by David Yu, intimate apparel by Rio Wrenn and fashion styling by Hart Portland


Finally, I topped the lips off with Tom Ford's Rose Crush Ultra Shine Lip Gloss. Nude lips are my absolute year-round favorite. To set Natasha's complexion and add moisture to her skin, I spritzed a liberal amount of rose water across her face for an over all fresh and dewy look of love and springtime perfection.


David Yu, originally from the mile high city of Denver, Yu has worked with many major modeling agencies from around the nation and he is now in a Portland-based salon called Prima Salon. Find David Yu at www.davidyubeauty.com

The Art of Y: An Interview With Fashion Designer Catherine Litke

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With this new interview series I, Alex Schattner, hope to shed light on Millennials who are striving toward creative goals. Who am I? Read my personal story/manifesto here.





On Jan. 23, I spoke with fashion designer Catherine Litke at her studio near Union Square, New York City. Ms. Litke and I attended high school together. In 2012, she founded LITKE, her self-named fashion house. Read on to learn about her journey, and what it's really like to start out in the fashion industry.


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Ms. Litke in her studio. Photo taken by Alex Schattner


A: When did you know you wanted to be a fashion designer?



C: I really wanted to be a designer my whole life, but I didn't know it would lead to starting my own line until about two years ago. I studied studio art at NYU, really concentrating on video art, but then my last year at school I fell into a job as a stylist's assistant under Tina Chai. She really taught me how the industry works, and I admire her aesthetic and work ethic more than I can put into words. We worked with Band of Outsiders on all of their shows, and Tina's collaboration with designer Scott Sternberg was always really inspiring, because the brand has such a strong identity. That kind of clear, concise, vision is something I really aspire to, even if my style is a bit different. Fashion is about creating a story, and everything needs to work together, no matter how many references you may be working with.



After graduating, I worked freelance for almost five years for different editors. As a fashion assistant, I helped create and coordinate stories for all different magazines such as Vogue, Harper's Bazaar, and InStyle, among many others. Working with so many editors and designers was an amazing experience, but I realized that I didn't necessarily want to be on the stylist side -- even though it gave me an amazing chance to travel all over the world in my early twenties.


A: What's it like being in the industry?


C: I love constantly being surrounded by creative people who are also very involved in the business aspect of the fashion world. I think people assume that this industry is filled with a lot of over-privileged people playing dress up and buying expensive clothing. That's definitely not the case. One of the things I value most about this industry is that everyone works long hours and is really talented at what they do. If you put in the work, people in this business notice and appreciate it.


A: But you do have to be the face of your brand, right?


C: I don't necessarily think it is about being the face, but it is important to really believe in the products you are creating. I've always admired designers -- especially women -- who embody their brand in a genuine way.


A: Like Betsey Johnson?


C: Betsey Johnson definitely embodies her brand in a way I don't know if anyone else could.


I really look up to women like Isabel Marant, Stella McCartney, and Phoebe Philo. They put their DNA and style into everything they create. They also seem to love wearing the pieces they make, which I think about a lot when I'm designing. Working with editors taught me to create things that are both beautiful and commercial. There is a fine line, but generally my gauge is whether I myself would love to own something if I saw it out of the context of the collection. My past work experiences have taught me to edit. This has been very helpful in keeping the collection substantial, but not unmanageable to produce.



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A design from Litke's S/S look book. Taken by Jake Jones



A: How would you describe your brand?


C: My brand is focused towards a younger customer, 20-35, and the shapes are a bit boyish, but also super feminine. I don't subscribe to the idea that something super sexy also needs to be tiny and tight.


One of my favorite films is Belle de Jour, and Catherine Deneuve is just the most perfectly dressed character. She wears these amazing straight, 1960s, coats that are very restrictive, but also beautiful and feminine. I also love most French New Wave so that is usually somewhere in the back of my head.


More specifically, for my first collection I was fascinated with Mennonite quilting and the retro futurism images, specifically the movie Barbarella. This past season, I spent a lot of time looking at 1950s photos of children's dance classes and Indian Illustrations, which made for an interesting juxtaposition. For F/W 2014, I've been pretty obsessed with Louise Bourgeois' Fabric Works series, which I think really worked well in its translation into clothing.


A: If LITKE could have any celebrity spokesmodel, who would it be?


C: I really love women like Elle Fanning and Kirsten Dunst, who are obviously really feminine and beautiful, but also don't dress for men. You can tell they really love fashion in the clothing choices they make, and that is really admirable in the entertainment industry where there is so much pressure to fit into a mold.


A: How do you produce and distribute your designs?


Continue reading on my blog.


Photo courtesy of Alex Schattner and Jake Jones.

A New Treats Trend at NYFW

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The Seventeen Fashion team is on day number four, and as we've been running from show to show we've been lucky enough to get some goodies and snacks in between. I've noticed this season not only are designers feeding our notebooks and social newsfeeds with new creations, but some are even keeping our belly's fully too!

I've been so pleasantly surprised by this trend of treats we've been greeted with at presentations. Sweet Krispie Cupcake confections at Wildfox, a huge spread of savory bite sized mini tarts and pies at the Target presentation, super food juices at Dannijo, and even a Hot Chocolate bar in our own Hearst café! Lincoln Center also got in on the trend... a small café is tucked away in between tents for editors to grab a bite and take a break while posting their favorite runway looks and checking other #nyfw newsfeeds.

Lots of snacks and a fashion week survival kit full of water, mints, and energy bars have been absolutely necessary in past seasons to help our fashion team get through the week. Instead, now we only need to stuff our tiny cross body bags with extra gloves and phone chargers thanks to these new yummy additions to fashion week!

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How I Finally Lost My Youth And Found My Adult Style

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Oh, Youth...When everything we tried on fit perfectly and going shopping was easy and fun...When clothes were measured by how much of our lithe young bodies we can show off to the world, or at least to the ogling eyes of the male species: Strapless tops, shorts, mini skirts, plunging necklines, armless dresses, tight-fit skirts and jeans and of course, bikinis.The challenge THEN was how to show as much as one could, but with some measure of good taste and a shred of elegance...'Less is More' had a double meaning: at once slutty, and the total opposite: The foundation of elegance. I don't know what happened, but when the Beatles were suddenly in their 50s and 60s, I had no choice but to follow suit whether I was ready for it or not. Dressing up and looking good...which was once a piece of cake...was now turning out to be a difficult chore: Arms started to lose their muscle, sun-damaged cleavage showed itself on necklines...brown spots appeared on hands and exposed legs (in between veins that became more and more pronounced)... and worse -- the cute flesh that was once on our round derriere seemed to drift into our stomachs, subsequently leaving us with a double whammy of a flat ass and bulging stomach.

Take that challenge, Vogue. As a woman who considers herself stylish (don't we all?), I knew I had to reinvent myself, ultimately coming upon a style borne out of necessity and trial and tribulation -- a style I call: Camouflage. It's a style that is the direct opposite of the agenda of those youthful days. Instead of dressing to reveal -- this style's job is to hide and cover. First rule of camouflage: never unveil the body parts that don't 'work' anymore and do whatever is necessary to divert attention away to what still 'works': i.e. dresses with 3/4 sleeves, even in summer, can be stylish. Skinny jeans or dark leggings can do a great job covering the imperfect skin while showing the still slim figure, as long as it comes with a long and loose top that covers that pesky rear-end and stomach. Those ads for padded underwear that you thought were for other women? Listen up: those are now for you. A one-piece suit (bikinis were left behind at age 45) is now even more restricted: No colors -- only a black one-piece can somehow cover or lessen the appearance of a bulge. Since my hands showcase every ray of sunshine I ever exposed myself to (yes, I still do), the color of the manicure is boring clear but the pedicure on my still-nice toenails is colorful.

Grooming is a must -- hair colored, cut and blown dry...professionally and often...can take away from a face that is increasingly not responding to any creams, regardless of how much you pay for them. A checkered Panama hat -- made out of paper and purchased for $10 on the street -- got me so many compliments -- that I expanded its use from style and sun cover to camouflaging bad hair days and thinning hair (only in one tiny, little spot...) Interesting jewelry is another trick that helps to divert the attention away from monochrome clothing. (Should Black and Beige be even allowed at our age? My French girlfriend says NO... Color is the foundation of youth...Beige is not.). Anything with sparkle used to send me vomiting. It reeked of Miami and women who didn't understand fashion and architectural tailoring. Now, I don't see how one can even look semi festive without them. I'm also thinking that perhaps it's even time to expose my young, virgin earlobes to piercing and introduce some light reflecting earrings to the game. The constant challenge NOW is how to translate all that adult good taste and chastity clothing and still appear youngish and 'with it'. It takes discipline and vision and a lot of rummaging. So when people hear my age and say: "No way! You don't look your age at all...what is your secret?" I smile with a sense of accomplishment and say: "Camouflage." Why not spread the news?

Earlier on Huff/Post50:



What I Know About Being Single Now That I'm In My 20s

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Most of your 20s will be an inconceivable mess. Where you call home will change as often as the title on your 3x5 business card does. The most unswerving relationship you'll have will be with your email inbox and the most reliable love letters you'll receive will come monthly from credit card companies, telling you how happy they are to have you in their lives before demanding that you fork over your hard-earned cash. You'll find yourself going on as many first dates as job interviews. They'll start to feel exactly the same.

You'll master your "About Me" speech and soon realize that the only way to kick the nervous jitters over whether or not you'll ever hear from them again is to frolic around your apartment like a total distraught maniac.

In your 20s, being single will make you feel like a lightweight. There's only so many times someone can ask about your dating life (or lack thereof) before you burst out a monologue about how there is more to life than just twirling your fingers around the heart of someone else.

Others will suddenly take interest in your single status. While your uncle is carving the turkey at Thanksgiving, the chatter will turn from Obamacare to, "Jen, honey, why aren't you dating anyone?" Your dentist, the stranger you meet in line at the post office, even your 4th grade teacher who you bump into at Target will ask you why it is that you're still single.

Who you are at 21 won't be who you are at 25 and then again at 29. Your 20s are a scrapbook, a hodgepodge of growing up, of making grand mistakes, of changing careers, relationships and interests as many times as you'll change your hairstyle or workout routine.

But if you do, indeed, find yourself single for any amount of time in your 20s, you'll learn these chaotically gorgeous truths:

1. You will go on a lot of first dates. Most of them will be anticlimactic.
Some of them will just be bizarre. You may find yourself acting more like Dr. Phil than a potential suitor as you try to help the person across the table from you cope with his recent breakup. Maybe he'll spend too much time talking about his failed relationships or maybe you'll spend too much time talking about how your job is giving you gray hair. Maybe your personalities, your interests or your morals will clash. And at some point, after you come home and slam your keys down on the coffee table and tell your roommate you're never going on a date again, you'll remember that no first date is ever the same -- and at the very least, you have a new story.

2. First dates will never get easier.
And they shouldn't. No matter how many you go on, the moments before a first date will always feel similar to seasickness. Your palms will sweat, your heart will race and you'll start spinning the wheel of what-if's and oh-my-gods. You should never feel comfortable or complacent with the idea of meeting a stranger who could potentially flip your life upside down like you do your mattress every few years. Wrap your arms around that feeling.

3. All your friends will suddenly start to get engaged -- or at least it might feel that way -- and that's OK.
You'll start to ask yourself, "Did I miss something in the syllabus freshman year?" Somehow everyone you knew in college seemed to get a memo that when they hit 24, 25, 26, they were supposed to suddenly trade their Forever 21 studded rings in for a diamond the size of an overgrown pimple. You'll be there with them: sitting at an eight-person table at a wedding reception watching people slow dance, getting fitted for your sixth bridesmaid dress (in one year), zooming in on another one of your mere acquaintances' pictures of their ring on Instagram with the hashtag #HePutARingOnIt. You might ask yourself, What's wrong with me? Why am I still single? And after dancing the hora with a bride's parents, and going to another bachelorette party, and calling up another person and exclaiming with a face full of tears how happy you are for them, you will -- eventually --- realize the answer to that question is: absolutely nothing. You are just single.

4. You'll try new things.
I once met someone who was 18 and told me she'd never try online dating until she was in her late 30's -- and only as a last resort. I patted her on the back and said, "Just wait until you have a full-time job." It's harder to meet people when you're working 9-to-whenever-your-to-do list-is-complete and it's easy to get sick of being hit on by guys at bars with tequila on their breath. You'll say "yes" to trying new things and meeting new people when you're single, and those things will be nothing but interesting adventures. You'll do speed dating (once), online dating (a bunch) and may even find yourself on a six-person Grouper blind date. You'll also get drunk off gin and sodas with your girl friends and stay out until 5 a.m. sometimes and go to fancy dinners with work acquaintances and drive two hours to see an art exhibit and plan a vacation to place where you barely speak the language. It will all be fabulous -- or at the very least, interesting.

5. What you look for in a person will change. Often.
After every date, every failed relationship, every time you hear your best friend gush about her new boyfriend or girlfriend, what you look for and what your "deal breakers" are will evolve. When I was 21, I wanted to date guys who were free-spirited and adventurous, who tempted me with fantasies of climbing mountains and jumping out of planes over a rainforest in Costa Rica. But now, at 25, what I look for in someone is more concrete and less ethereal.

6. You'll learn how to fall madly in love with yourself.
You'll relish in the fine art of taking yourself out for a movie on a Sunday afternoon or for some pizza and a beer on a Friday night. And you won't be spending the time worrying that everyone around you is whispering about your solo status. This will be hard. You'll be so terribly lonely before you decide to stop ordering in dinner and binging on Netflix that you'll put on a pair of clean pants and say to yourself, "No plans tonight? Fine. I'll spend the evening deep conditioning my hair and then take myself out for some Pad Thai."

7. You'll learn how to say goodbye.
Your 20s may be the time when you said "I love you" for the first time, or when you had to find out through your Facebook newsfeed that your college love just got engaged or that someone you've been dating for a few months is also seeing someone else. You'll learn, over time, that you have to let go every now and then. That you can't zip-line through life with unfinished love tugging at your heels.

8. You'll create memories that you won't want to (or be able to) forget.
Your awkward dates and your late-night mistakes and the "I can't wait to come home and tell you what happened tonight" text messages are the experiences that'll keep you laughing throughout the rest of your life. Your 20s are what it looks like when you dump the items in your dresser drawer on your floor and your clothes explode all over your room. Slowly, because of your myriad of entry-level jobs and your addiction to Netflix and your constant march toward true indendence, you'll start to pick up the pieces, metaphorically folding your tank tops in one pile and your jeans in the other. Of course, it'll be a mess. But it will be your mess. And it will be a whole lot of fun to clean up.

After all, you're only in your 20s. You have time.

All the Single Ladies: 10 Great Tips for a Red Hot Valentine's Day

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According to CNN, Americans spend over $18 billion to show their love on Valentine's Day -- an average of $130 per gift. 64 percent of men and 36 percent of women buy flowers; 224 million roses are grown just for the holiday. $1.6 billion gets spent on candy, $4.4 billion on jewelry.

But there are 55 million single women and 48 million single men in the US. So this Valentine's Day, why not throw the clichés out the window? Forget the stress of date night and those over-priced dinners. Think creatively about celebrating love. Whether it's inviting grandparents over for dinner, gathering kids for a cupcake decorating party or girlfriends for a spa night, this Creative Entertaining video suggests some different ways you can show some love, whether you're single, married, or dating.



Ten Great Ideas for Valentine's Day (slide show):

10 Products to Use for Simply Glowing Skin

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There is a marketing myth behind skincare that says we need long listed regimen of special products to give us supermodel skin. I'm here to debunk that myth for you. In the past, I've tried topical prescription creams, every type of face wash imaginable, peels, oils, lotions, potions... and nothing works quite as well as this simple glowing skin care regimen that I've put together.

Here's the list of winning products that I swear by and use day in and day out (all in order of how I apply them):

1. Chantecaille Bamboo & Hibiscus Exfoliating Cream, $85. The Chantecaille Bamboo & Hibiscus Exfoliation Cream texture feels like a milky cream with tiny flecks of sand, which really aids in ridding my face of any leftover makeup or residue. It's very important to use a natural and light exfoliating cream on your face, especially when you live in a city where the dust from the streets and construction can suffocate your pores.

2. Tata Harper Resurfacing Mask (for instant glow), $55. I have tried every scary looking mask and this nontraditionally clear mask (thank God) is a total winner. I use the Tata Harper Resurfacing Mask every couple of weeks and it makes my skin really glow --hallelujah, there is truth in marketing. The first time I tried this mask, I met a girlfriend right after for coffee, and she told me that my skin looked amazing -- it was glowing. Money well spent! If you're looking to make a first impression, like I do when I meet new clients, use this mask for the perfect, alluring glow.

3. Tata Harper Repairative Moisturizer, $100. I travel a lot and this moisturizer is perfect for every climate. Tata Harper Repairative Moisturizer offers just the right amount of moisture and doesn't leave my face feeling caked or too moist. I love the travel size (15 ml) bottle because I can always keep it in my carry on bag.

4. Chantecaille Nano Gold Energizing Eye Cream, $265. This under eye cream is so much better for everyday use than a tinted concealer. Chantecaille Nano Gold Energizing Eye Cream is flecked with real gold (hence the price tag), which reflects the sunlight and dramatically improves any under-eye circles. I always feel like the truer you are to you skin (i.e. allowing your real skin to show through your makeup), the more honest people will perceive you to be. Wear just enough product that you still look like you, and you will appear as confident, naturally radiant and honest.

5. Origins All and Nothing (Sheer Pressed Powder for Every Skin), $27.50. I have tried every powder in the book, and the most natural looking powder that keeps my t-zone matted is Origins All and Nothing. After I apply the Tata Harper Repairative Moisturizer and Chantecaille Nano Gold Energizing Eye Cream, I lightly brush this powder over my chin, upper lip, and forehead. This keeps my face from looking too shiny, especially when I'm in Miami where the humidity can make you sweat in places you never knew you could.

6. Chantecaille Poudre de Perle (Akoya), $58. I love a nice youthful pink glow right on the apples of my cheeks. The Chantecaille Poudre de Perle blush tube is so convenient with a built in brush. Brush it lightly several times over each cheek bone and instantly you'll have that post-yoga glow.

7. Chantecaille Compact Soleil (St. Barth's), $45. This is my trick for everyday definition, and using a product that's safe on your skin is key to preventing breakouts. I lightly brush Chantecaille Compact Soleil under my cheekbones, along my jaw line, down each side of my nose and across the top of my forehead. Bronzer gives your face a bit more definition that looks great even on the more natural days.

8. Chantecaille Faux Cils Mascara (Black), $42. Usually, I curl my eyelashes and I'm out the door sans mascara. On days where I want an extra pop around my eyes, I use Chantecaille Faux Cils Mascara made with red seaweed extract and infused with rosewater for a delicate fragrance. I am very careful with what I put around my eyes; the makeup industry is so loosely regulated and we don't know if a product's side effect can be damaging. A good rule of thumb I use when buying a product is, if I can safely eat it, it's safe enough to put on my skin (especially around my eyes).

9. Tata Harper Lip Care (Be Fierce), $24. Even my husband steals Tata Harper Lip Care from my purse. I am extremely picky with chap stick (this happens when you marry a Jewish man) because I always feel the chemicals in the products alter the texture inside of my mouth. This nourishing clear lip care however, stays just on the lips and smells like a delicious, sweet apricot.

10. Alba Botanica Hawaiian 3-in-1 Clean Towelettes, $5.99. Most makeup removers leave my skin oily and caked. The Alba Botanica Towelettes smell like pineapple and leave my skin perfectly fresh, yet are strong enough to remove all of my mascara with one towel.

Overcoming Creative Block and Finding Your Inspiration

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"Today I see beauty everywhere I go, in every face I see, in every single soul, and sometimes even in myself."

-Kevyn Aucoin



Losing one's inspiration is a constant fear in an industry that is all about being fashion-forward and innovative. Makeup application is an art form that combines technical skills with imagination and creativity. Technical skills allow an individual to learn the fundamentals needed to refine their craft. I believe imagination and creativity are what allow an artist to become a master of their trade.

Creative block is something that many people experience -- artists, writers, composers, and musicians to name a few. No matter what your creative medium is, it is bound to find its way into your life at some point. When it creeps its way into my life, there are a few things that have helped me to get the creative juices flowing:

Reading:

This might sound strange but I enjoy reading about the history of fashion and beauty. Did you know that the application of makeup as an expression of beauty and wealth can be traced back to the Ancient Egyptians? The Egyptians were amongst the first to use minerals and other substances as cosmetics. Ancient sculptures and papyrus art feature Nefertiti wearing eyeliner and Cleopatra with a cat eye that is still created today. Learning about where makeup came from and how it has evolved over time helps trigger my imagination and inspire me to create new styles.

Exploring the great outdoors:

This past summer I took a trip to Colorado and saw some of the most beautiful scenery this country has to offer. A particular hike that stood out to me was the Mohawk Lake Trail in Breckenridge. It was a seven mile hike that featured waterfalls, historical ruins, and mountains that took my breath away. There is beauty all around us; we just have to take the time to appreciate it. The colors and textures found in nature offer an unparalleled beauty that has often helped me overcome creative blocks.

Creating an inspiration board:

An inspiration board is a collage of images, quotes, and affirmations that trigger positive emotions specific to the area you are trying to gain inspiration for. I have made a number of inspiration boards in my life. I like to include some of my favorite pieces of artwork, patterns from my favorite designers, different textures, and quotes like the one I shared with you at the beginning of this article. Creating an inspiration board helps me jump start my imagination and compartmentalize my thoughts when I feel my styles are getting stale. As a bonus, inspiration boards have proven to be useful tools when reviewing visual ideas with my clients.

Find inspiration in yourself:

I have no doubt that you have created something wonderful or been part of something magnificent in your lifetime. You most likely have photographs, letters, and accolades to prove it. Go on a self-indulgent, self-appreciation, mildly narcissistic journey. Dig into your past and take a few moments to appreciate yourself and all you have done that you are truly proud of. I document photographs of models I have worked on. I save all the thank you notes and wedding pictures I receive from brides. Sometimes I just need to take a step back and realize that it is in me to create -- it is in me to make people feel beautiful. The proof is there for all of us, we have created great things in the past and we will do it again in the future.

Deborah Lindquist: Celebrate Valentine's Day in Fashion

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Where would we be without love?

A Valentine's Day celebration can be as simple as a little heart-shaped candy containing the message "Be Mine" or as dramatic as a proposal for marriage. No matter what the day brings, it's a day to celebrate love, the most powerful force on the planet.

For whatever date night festivities you have planned, what you wear on Valentine's Day should make you feel lovely and lovable. Because the truth is, you are. So, what to wear?

Be feminine.
A little cleavage couldn't hurt. Try a bustier, even if it's new for you. A little lift here, a little nip there, and you automatically feel sexier. Not only do bustiers enhance your assets, they urge you to stand up straight, just like Mom told you to do. This vintage kimono bustier with embroidered flowers is elegant and sexy, and is a great choice for a romantic date night.

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Try a red lip and a bare shoulder.
A wrap will offer you some warmth (because it's still winter, after all) but letting it slip off one shoulder adds that bit of je ne sais quoi. This reincarnated cashmere ruffled wrap is a good option. Worn over a red beaded bustier with a red lip, you'll look absolutely huggable. And kissable.

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Experiment with red if you're planning "The Date."
How much love can you fit into one day? Millions of couples get engaged on Valentine's Day. And many more choose it as their wedding date. So if you're planning a Valentine's Day wedding, why not wear red? This red hemp/silk and vintage lace gown would be beautiful and dramatic for your nuptuals.

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Photo by Anjani Lynn White

Happy Valentine's Day, everyone. May your day be filled with LOVE.

As one of America's most sought after environmentally conscious designers, Deborah Lindquist creates exquisite apparel out of a mix of "reincarnated" and new Earth-friendly fabrics, such as cashmere, hemp and bamboo. Lindquist's avant-garde apparel has been showcased in numerous publications including Elle, In Style, Lucky, WWD, Vibe, People, Brides and Maxim. You can also catch her one-of-a-kind pieces during episodes of Lifetime's How to Look Good Naked and Access Hollywood's Hollywood Green. She has dressed trendsetters such as Rihanna, Pink, Christina Aguilera, Jessica Simpson, Paris Hilton, Keisha Cole and Jessica Alba. Check out her press page and blog to learn more about Deborah.

What I Know About Being Single Now That I'm In My 30s

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I had my first love affair when I was in the fifth grade.

I think my 11-year-old paramour may have been the first guy to tell me, "I love you." On Valentine's Day, he gave me a red rose and a hot pink pencil with a heart-shaped eraser. He introduced me to Stephen King and took me to the best pizza joint on the block. When we weren't fighting dramatically, involving our entire social circle in our "domestic" squabbles, we'd play Truth Or Dare, listen to Rob Base & DJ EZ Rock tell us how "It Takes Two" or Young MC break down how to "Bust A Move," as if we had any clue. Ironically, I think we had more of a clue than either of us knew. I can only speak for myself a good 20-odd years later, but I had iterations of that very fraught affair -- a fifth grade romance -- throughout my 20s and even into my 30s. I suppose it's not such an unusual thing to relive, repeat or reenact the same dysfunctional relationship over and over again with the characters that fill your life. And, trust me, you will, unless you consciously do something differently. But platitudes like: "You're single because you are too picky/spend too much time on your career/enjoy living an extended adolescence" are not helpful ways of understanding what it means or feels like to be single. As a single gal, you don't have a partner to champion and validate your needs. You have to do that for yourself. When you position your single status as such, isn't it suddenly much more empowering?

Back in the fifth grade, I was quite a precocious little lady, (as was my middle school crush), but as advanced as we might have been, surely, we were doing nothing more than re-imagining some pre-packaged version of romance. That may have been fine for my preteen self, but I'm a woman now, and the stakes are higher. But how many of us can truly say we are living love lives of our own design? The first step in doing so is re-conceptualizing what it means to be single. Forget what your family, friends, HBO, Facebook, your favorite starlet or your OKCupid profile has to say about your single status.

What does being single mean to you? Do you enjoy the perks of being a single gal? Does being single shame or embarrass you? Are you single by default or is being single a conscious choice? You don't have to have all the answers, but I challenge you to really sit with those questions and amend them as you evolve. People love to project their fantasies (or greatest fears) onto the single gal. Still, after all this time, she's unconventional; she's both exciting and intimidating. Or maybe she irrationally reminds you of someone who you don't want to end up like. Whatever the case, don't you dare let those fantasies (or greatest fears) box you into a corner, because in reality, they have little to do with the woman you actually are.

Lovers will come and go, but you must live with yourself forever. Get comfortable with that fact and own it because single or not single, you will never own anyone else. Ever. And would you want to? Here's the thing: Being single isn't all that different from being in a relationship. It's taken me a long time to figure that out. And only when faced with the prospect of NOT being single do I truly understand that. Who I am is not going to magically change because I have a lover or a boyfriend or a husband. Of course I will adapt, adjust and acclimate to the shifts of being with another. But the woman I am, who I've come to love in that way that you must love yourself to fully be with someone else, well, "she wants to dance to a different groove; now you know what to do, just bust a move," (yes, I still know all of the words, though thankfully, I've retired my crop tops). Change is always, always possible; you're not doomed to relationship purgatory. If you want something to change -- or shift, because most likely it's the fine mental tuning we make that really engenders change -- you're going to have to work at it. Start by throwing out all the preconceived notions of the single gal. And don't intellectualize your feelings, but rather know them in an emotional sense. I might not have everything figured out, but I'm getting there by rewriting the script. So here are some things I've learned from my tenure of living single.

1. Open Your Heart is not only a kick-ass Madonna song, it's one of the most important mantras a single gal can have. Do you go about your day, head to the ground, swinging tight fists as you ruminate on all the guys who have done you wrong? If so, why torture yourself like that? Is that how you want to engage with the world? "Put yourself out there" is another insulting single person platitude, but if you tweak it, this platitude makes sense. You have to put yourself out there in a way that feels organic to you. I've also learned that part of being a good lover and partner is the ability to listen, and I mean really listen (as opposed to offering advice, even when prompted) and you can only do that with an open heart. We can be so self-obsessed that listening is a simple way to tap into our empathy while letting go of past romantic missteps. When you find a worthwhile partner who wants to listen to you in return, you will be building intimacy in a meaningful way.

2. Dating Is So Retro, Which Therefore Makes It Cool. Like many women my age, I grew up in hookup culture. Indeed, I had quite the dating life in fifth grade, but in high school, college and even in my 20s, I mostly hooked up with guys or went from zero to full-blown relationship without dating. Dating can be awkward and confusing: "Wait, you don't know who Snowden is?" "You think Lana Del Rey sounds like Celine Dion?" "You want me to do WHAT in the cab?" Dating can and will make your stomach flip. But it's supposed to be fun, and if it's not, you're dating the wrong people (though there will always be duds). When the duds become overwhelming, take a break. Reboot. Reconnect with former friends; take that martial arts class you've always been curious about; approach someone at a bar; borrow a friend's dog and go to the park; smile at strangers. Trust me, there will be plenty more jerks who itemize your dinner bill or sweethearts who bring you flowers (yes, men still do this) when you decide you want to date again. The older I get, the more I realize there's no reason to rush or force a situation. In fact, rushing into something that's not right will end up wasting more time rather than being selective.

3. Don't Panic About Your Ticking Clock. There is a lot of confusing and contradictory data on what the "best" age is to reproduce -- if indeed, becoming a biological mother is something that you want with a partner. In fact, new research points to both a "biologically best" and a "sociologically best" age for a woman to conceive. How does this impact one of the most personal decisions I can make? It reassures me that I have options, like IUI or freezing my eggs if I want to biologically conceive (and I'm not saying these options are easy; in fact they are both very involved and difficult -- but they are out there and available). Talk to your doctor (I've consulted two) and both have assured me that fertility is a very individualized issue, so hours spent on WebMD or listening to your friends talk about what worked for them has nothing to do with your ovaries.

Panicking over what may never be is a dreadful way to spend the time you so preciously cherish. I'm not saying that, as women, the fertility window is something to ignore, but so many women I know internalize the pressure to become mothers so much so that it makes each man who comes into their lives feel like a sperm donor. Be aware of time, but don't let it control who you mate with and when. And, even though I believe in my right to choose what I do with my body, ultimately, I want to have a child with someone who is an equal partner in the entire process. If you're so stuck on your timeline, you might lose sight of that, which is an incredibly powerful way for two people to bond. And just a little reminder, a baby/child/adolescent is not an accessory. Having a family isn't all about you, though it might feel like that when you want it so badly and it seems out of reach.

4. Resist the GIAGS (Grass Is Always Greener Syndrome). We live in a culture of comparison. That doesn't make it right or healthy or even fun to live in. Coveting lives is not only a masochistic exercise; it's a futile one. You will never know what happens behind closed doors or how miserable or blissful a couple really is. It's also completely nonsensical to think that your friends' relationship status has anything to do with yours. But yet so many women obsess over the lives of others as if those lives somehow are relevant to our own stories. The truth is, they are not. Coveting is a one-way ticket to a hell of your own creation. And, quite frankly, you never know who is coveting your life, or, at least, her perception of it.

5. Get In Touch With Your Needs. We all pick and choose people in our lives because they fill certain needs. If, as a single gal, you have no idea of what your needs are, you might want to reconsider your relationship with yourself. Don't let the barrage of bad dates send you the message that your needs are irrelevant or that no one out there can fill them. But do be realistic about what makes the type of partner that meshes with you. For a long time I was not realistic about what I needed from a partner. I would discount good guys for ridiculous reasons and stick with bad boys for even more ridiculous ones. I told myself I didn't want to settle. But that was a convenient way of being emotionally unavailable. When someone is emotionally available to you, suddenly settling down doesn't feel pejorative; at least that's what happened to me. And as you mature and become more self-reliant, your needs become more boiled down and basic. Maybe your ideal partner is someone who takes you seriously; who is emotionally generous; who is complementary to you in different ways; who makes you feel safe. Know your needs, realize their importance and get rid of the hang-ups you have about what it means to "settle" down.

6. Identify Flaws In a Potential Partner STAT. Newsflash! Your partner is not going to be a perfect person. In fact, he or she is going to have flaws. Tons of them. The trick is to identify those as early on as possible and figure out if you can live with them. I think we spend too much time looking at the good qualities in people in the early stages of a relationship rather than trying to suss out the ones we don't like. But it all comes back to re-imagining what it means to be single. If we spend our time terrified at the idea of being single, we're more likely to idealize potential partners rather than to see them for who they really are.

7. Project the Person You Want to Be. I'm not saying become that agent who falls for her own cover story. But each time you meet a new person, you have a chance to reinvent yourself in a minor way; after all, one of the greatest things about being single is having all those "first" discoveries about a new person. Remember, that person is having those same discoveries about you. The real you can and will change, so why not start now? You have a better chance of attracting people who are in line with what you want by projecting those qualities outward. Who you are is not set in stone. But your relationships will become rigid if you don't tweak things about yourself that haven't worked so well for you in the past. Sometimes, as amazing as we are, it is us, not them, who pose a problem by getting in our own way.

8. Take a Chance; You Make the Rules. I've done some crazy things in the name of love -- things my friends would never do. But my friends aren't living my life. And sometimes, the more chances I take, the more satisfied I feel. I suppose this is not really a new insight, but it's one women can be reminded of. We are still given scripts on how to proceed if we want to be lucky in love: "Let him chase you." "Appear unavailable." "Never sleep with him on the first date." Why play games, especially when you're not making the rules? The thing is, you can make the rules. Just like there's no one right way to be in a couple, there's no one right way to be single. The more chances you take, the more you will get to know yourself and what you're looking for. And everyone deserves to feel like he or she has hit the jackpot -- whatever that means for you.

Jill Di Donato is a writer based in New York City. She is the author of the novel Beautiful Garbage, and is working on a collection of essays, 52 Weeks of Sex: Diary of A Single Gal.

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Hollywood Stars of Fashion Week!

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Every season, Fashion Week is filled with a sea of overdressed, heel-clicking street style stars but most importantly filled with lots of front-row celeb sightings. This week I was lucky enough to get some good shots of the girls that were workin' it in the front row with their pouty yet smiley poses, and fab designer outfits.

At the Rebecca Minkoff show, the front row was full of some of Seventeen's favorite cover girls from the past! Anna Sophia Robb, Bella Thorne, and Zendaya, just to name a few. They even posed and took some selfies with us. Then, there was the occasional DJ-turned-model sighting like former Seventeen girl Chelsea Leyland, who mixed tunes at Veronica Beard's presentation and then was caught strutting the catwalk at DKNY. And of course some backstage action at the Sunglass Hut lounge where rocker girls Georgia May Jagger, and her besties, Theodora and Alexandra Richards, were posing up a storm to promote the new 94 shades of summer collection.

As NYC editors, we take it for granted. Pushing through the crowds and climbing over mountains of slushy snow can be exhausting, but totally worth it when you get an up close view of some of Hollywood's and fashion's biggest celebs!

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Be My Last Minute Valentine

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Love is in the air, floating around in the form of cartoon cupids and crepe-paper hearts. Whether in a new relationship or seeking something special for your established relationship, Valentine's Day is a perfect opportunity to express love and gratitude.

This time of the year clients ask me questions about what they should give as a Valentine's Day gift. My philosophy is simple: the gift should be appropriate for the relationship.

Many people have difficulty selecting Valentine's Day gifts. For those of you that have been procrastinating getting Valentine's Day gifts for your special someone, here's a quick Valentine's Day gift giving guide.

Just Dating
For those of you with a new heartthrob and have been dating for less than a few weeks, show affection for the lady in your life with a Hawaiian lei or small arrangement of flowers. Stay away from red roses for now. For the man in your life, a thoughtful card (handmade are the best), a bag of chocolate kisses, or a picture of the 2 of you in a frame all make great gifts.

Even if you are crazy for that new special someone and can already see yourself marrying them one day, restrain yourself this Valentine's Day. There will be plenty of other V-Days down the road. Doing too much can overwhelm your date. On the other hand, you don't want to show up empty handed.

Newish Relationships
If you've been in a committed relationship for two to six months, up your game slightly with a small, personal gift. If your mate is interested in gardening, for instance, consider a small, flowering houseplant or bonsai. A couples' massage is also a great way to show your appreciation while spending time together. In early relationships, showing an interest in your partners hobbies and spending time together is much more important than overspending or making the perfect reservation. Skip the expense at this point and stay in with a home cooked meal. You'll both enjoy Valentine's more.

Established Relationships
For the married and long-term dating, celebrate Valentine's with a romantic evening together. Make time (even if busy schedules require moving the day) to spend together. Give gifts according to your household budget but with an eye for the personal. Show your spouse that you see who they are by gifting them with something they will enjoy. When looking for a gift, ask yourself, "Will this make him/her smile?" If the answer is yes, then you are on the right track.

Single
Spoil yourself if you are single. Rather than moping, like a character in a sad movie, take this opportunity to pamper yourself . Get a massage, cook yourself a great meal or get your favorite meal delivered. Buy yourself a plant or some fabulous flowers. Soak in a tub of epsom salt and essential oils or drink your favorite wine while watching a favorite movie.

Below are a few gift ideas that will make any mate swoon:

Valentine's Gifts for Him
1. What I Love About You By Me ($) This little book contains fill-in-the-blank lines describing some aspect of your affection for your Valentine.
2. The Grand Collection ($$) - This set of award winning artisanal candies will show your guy just how sweet you think he really is.
3. Outdoor Grill ($$$-$$$$) - Fire up his heart (and his appetite) with the ultimate cooking experience, the Big Green Egg. You'll enjoy meals together for years to come.

Valentine's Gifts for Her
1. Hawaiian Lei ($) A lei is a common symbol of love, friendship, celebration, honor, or greeting. In other words, it is a symbol of Aloha.
2. Mabel Chong BlueTopaz Disc Charm Earrings ($$) Keep her heart warm with the luxurious wrap.
3. Cashmere Travel Wrap ($$$) Keep her heart warm with the luxurious wrap.

Valentine's Gifts for You
1. Handbook for the Heart ($) Inspiration and advice about love.
2. Apple Blossom Bonsai ($$) Add a little life to your home with a flowering plant. Bonsai's make great companions for reflection and focus.
3. The Present ($$$) Ground yourself in the moment with this amazing art piece.
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